Facets of a Diamond – Blog
To heal is to help the self-concerned sufferer become an altruistic healer.
For to suffer is to not love – and to heal is to love.
But before the sufferer can love, he must feel loved. And this is the very essence of the healer’s role.
By loving him,
the healer
helps the sufferer
to heal, to love.The sufferer does not know that he is Love. And this is the root cause of his anguish.
The task of the healer is to feel the Belovedness bestowed on him, and on all, unknowingly by the sufferer, and to return it to him that he may at last realize that he, and all, is Love.
But
I have found over many years of clinical experience that there are five criteria, which, when met, can best ensure a satisfactory outcome
from the therapeutic relationship with the sufferer. These are:1. The insightful recognition that there is suffering, pain, dis-ease in your life.
2. That you accept responsibility—not blame—for this.
3. That you know
A pigeon with one leg hobbles over to him – Knowing more than the medical students. How can they walk past – and not Know?
If we really believed our mothers deeply loved us – if we Knew their Souls – there would be little need to venture beyond her to the Unknown, no need to seek a goddess out There. For she would be as a goddess in the home.
All my work as a healer is basically to do with the mother: reconciling the anguished sufferer – and that’s every one of us – with his mother as Love. For it is this, I believe, that underlies all human suffering.
Now the words heal and whole are derived from the same etymological root, and so
The psychoanalyst George Frankl stated that
All mothers want only to love
and all children want only to be loved.To which I would add
All children want only to love.We have found that if people direct their positive communication out toward others, even if it is just counting numbers, it will raise your Life Energy. Conversely, when they do not direct it out to anyone—when they just put it “into the air”—your energy is not raised.
The lifelong quest for Belovedness, for Perfection, for God is the attempt to regain the Feeling in the womb, where we were moved – lapped – by the breathing movements of the mother, the All Other.
Imagine that streaming into and out from your umbilicus is a chakra of the highest Energy, of the purest Love. Tightly concentrated, little thicker than a pencil. Rich, strong, radiant gold. Not just the color of gold – but gold itself transcending its physical substrate.
This was the highest link, the spiritual, between you and your